A couple days ago I woke up to a nice cool day for August in
Kansas. The 70 degree morning felt like
such a relief compared to the 100+ temperatures we have been battling. The day was begging me to go for a jog in the
park next to my apartment.
As I slowly made my way around the park I was reminded of
Belgium. Cool air. Cloudy, dreary skies. The burn in my lungs
(though from lack of running compared to the inhalation of a ridiculous amount
of other people’s cigarette smoke). It
got me thinking about what a crazy year it has been. Has it really already been a year? Wasn’t it just yesterday I was going through
a whirlwind of excitement?
A year ago on August 15th I turned
22. No big deal. We didn’t know this day would be a
game changer. Ty and I woke up early to
go to Target to help our friends Cole and Britt with an awesome event they had
set up. We were going back-to-school
shopping with less-fortunate kids; Target was going to match Cole
dollar-for-dollar of what he donated to the children. It was so great to see those kids pick out
new school supplies and back packs.
Afterwards, I went to Eudora to pick up some birthday cupcakes from Cami
(of Cami’s Cakes who did our wedding cake and cupcakes). My friend and former roommate, Lindie, came
to hang out and we had a ridiculous photo sesh.
Then we got a call. Ty’s agent
let us know that he had drawn a contract with a team in Belgium. Belgium?
What? We waited a day or two more
to get more details. Then it was
set. We were to leave that weekend. After a mere THREE weeks of being married, we
were on our way to Europe.
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| My awesome friend, Lindie. Love her. |
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| The few bags we had to take with us. |
I was a mish-mash of emotions. Excitement. Nervousness. Relief. Anxiousness.
Fear. Endless questions running through
my head. What was newlywed life going to be like overseas? Would there be any other wives? Would I be
able to interact with people? Will Ty like it? WHAT DO I PACK?
You all know the stories.
We arrived in Belgium and I was terrified and excited. What was this green, rainy country? I had many painful grocery store and washing
machine experiences. I baked cinnamon rolls. I went to games. I smiled. I cried. I watched a lot of Gossip Girl.
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| The washer that I REALLY think tried to drive me insane. I shall forever hate it. |
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| Cinnamon rolls. Enough said. |
And I did have ONE other wife I was able to talk to. Alec will never know how thankful I was to
have her there. She probably thought I
was this crazy, baking lady who liked to be alone. But I enjoyed her company. It was a weird experience knowing there was
only one person (other than my husband) that I could hang out with and talk
to. I’m lucky she is completely awesome
and I got along with her. The Lord knew
I needed a friend.
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| Alec and me at a game. I don't know what I would have done without her. |
And I had all of you.
You read my blog, left me comments, made me smile. It was encouraging to know that people cared
about us. I was also mystified as to why
anyone would ever want to read what I wrote.
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| I seriously miss those waffles. |
So I went through many emotions, experiences, and
endeavors. In November, I came home for
my brother’s Laos wedding. It was a
breath of fresh air to be home and with family.
But I was still aching. Tyrel was
going to be there for 5 weeks without me.
It made me sad to know he would come home to an empty apartment with no
one to talk to and no food on the table.
He’s tough, though. Much tougher
than I am.
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| SO green. I used to run through this park :) |
And this is where I left of last time. December 12th finally rolled
around and I was able to pick up Ty! I
don’t think I’ve ever been happier.
Seeing him there, physical and tactile, as he walked off the plane made
my heart melt. We were able to celebrate
Christmas with our families and enjoy being home.
December and January brought some tough decisions for
us. We decided we wanted to move on past
basketball overseas and take on new challenges.
We were going to go back to school.
Tyrel was accepted in to the doctoral physical therapy program at KU Med
Center and I was accepted into the master program for occupational
therapy. Sure, we’ve done school our
whole lives, but now we’re going to GRADUATE school? With a bunch of really smart people? What was I getting myself into?
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| Baby girl's 2nd birthday! She loves her Uncle Ty. |
We stayed in Burlington for a couple months while we tried
to figure everything out and get a game plan.
After being away from family and friends, it was actually a little
enjoyable to be in that small town for a while.
Ty was also busy with book signings around Christmas and he was able to
re-connect with KU fans. We moved to
Kansas City in February and started working before we’d have to go to
school. It was nice to get used to the
area and get our bearings straight before we’d be swamped with schoolwork. Kansas City is definitely a place of its
own. It was hard to get used to how
spread out everything is and I didn’t exactly enjoy battling rush hour traffic
twice a day.
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| Trip to the zoo. |
May rolled around, Ty and I went to open houses and
orientations at the med center and were able to meet some of our professors and
classmates. It was quite the transition
for me to go from doing not a whole lot in Belgium and taking care of Ty to
working full time to getting in the school frame of mind. The year off was nice, but it made it that
much harder to get excited and motivated.
We officially started class the end of May and got into a routine. Ty and I had one class together, clinical
anatomy. It.Was.Ridiculous. We basically had 8 weeks to learn the human
body when we were given almost 4 months to do that at KU. It was one of the toughest classes I’ve
taken, but we got through it! I also got
a little bit more of a taste of OT. I
knew it was a broad career path, but WOW, I’m not sure there is a setting where
an OT can’t work.
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| My dancing queen. |
After going through summer class, Ty and I went on some
vacations. I went to Virginia with some
of my family and he went to Colorado with his dad. We celebrated our ONE YEAR ANNIVERSARY and
went on another vacation to Florida with his family and some friends. Ty has also spent his fair share of golfing
and fishing with friends. Sometimes I
feel like he could live the rest of his life outside in a tent. I won’t challenge him to that, though.
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| In Virginia. |
All I can say is that it has been a roller coaster ride for
our first year of marriage. Last year at
this time, I would have never imagined all of this would happen. But I wouldn’t change it for the world. We grow from experiences and we have to get
out of our comfort zone. I am truly
blessed and thankful to have such an amazing husband to stand next to during
all of this.
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| 1 year anniversary <3 |
Ty and I are getting ready to start fall semester and we’ll
take on a whole new set of classes.
I
have made some wonderful friends in my program and I’m excited for what the
next three years has to offer us.
Who
knows where we’ll end up?
I’ve learned
that you can never actually plan your future, but you have to go with what’s
thrown at you and make the best of it.
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| Watch out carpal tunnel, we'll splint you. |
I don’t know if this whole blog thing will become regular,
again. I just felt the need to put this
out there. I doubt anyone will even read
it, but that’s okay, I like to listen to myself talk.
Also, here is one of my favorite recipes I have made WAY too
many times since I’ve found it. If you
like cinnamon/snickerdoodles…you will LOVE this. And if not, just send them my way :]
